This is an e-mail that I wrote to someone requesting my work history because they needed real life stories to present to the U.N. in July. I decided that I would just share with the rest of you what I shared with her, and if anyone else is in the same boat that I am please feel free to comment.
This is the e-mail:
I have been in the workforce since I was 16 with my first job at a
Burger King. I was extremely proficient and never had customer wait
longer than 90 seconds for an order with a 0% return rate. That made
the managers very pleased however I was not good with the co-workers
because a lot of the times I had to correct their mistakes. I was let
go twice because of my interactions but they always called me back
because of my proficiency, after the second time they called me back
they decided to make me a manager to give me more authority so the
co-workers would be more apt to listening to me rather than thinking I'm
just their equal. I worked there until December 2001, my senior year
in high school in which I enlisted into the United States Navy in which
point I decided to quit because the stress of working with those
"idiots" started to get to me. I shipped out to Recruit Training on
July 5, 2002 shortly after graduation. I was in the Navy from July 5,
2002 until July 5, 2005 in which I attained rank of E-5, earned two
Naval Achievement Medals for my work with chart plotting, correcting,
navigation and track laying, expert rifle shooter medal, sharpshooter
pistol ribbon, Sea Service Deployment ribbon, National Defense Service
Medal and many other mentions. Again my work was noted as proficient
but I had a hard time working with the other operations specialists
because I devoted my time to my primary function (radar control and
chart navigation) and didn't want any help because I had a way of doing
things and was very precise with my corrections and calculations. The
reason that I stood out was mainly because I wanted to stay focused on
my job and didn't really talk about much else other than navigation
(both electronic and celestial) but no one else really cared about all
that so I took it as my main objective to make sure that I was always on
watch keeping track of everything which made the others feel inferior.
I did not realize that, I thought I was just being a good shipmate. I
had three people that I hung around with, the others would just come and
go, in other words I didn't really have many people in my corner to
back me so my advancement was strictly by my hard work and testing in
the field rather than recommendations from my superiors. I agreed to an
administrative discharge one year short of my EAOS date because my
social abilities wasn't helping me at all. I was not diagnosed with
Aspergers until April of 2011 so at that time I did not realize I had
it, and until my son was diagnosed and my wife decided that I needed to
get tested I knew very little about the syndrome. Since I got out of
the Navy I held down many positions, obtaining 6 jobs from October 2005
until February 2008 before landing a job at a steel mill from April 2008
until May 2011 in which I was released in April, brought back by the
union, and released again a month later due to my social inabilities. I
then secured another job from May 2011 until April 2012 as a temporary
associate in which I was not hired in due to my social inabilities
rather than my job performance. My first position out of the Navy was
working as a seasonal helper for Target working on the overnight freight
team stocking shelves. I worked there from October 2005 until February
2006 and they liked my work however the reason they said they had to
let me go is because I was too particular on the placement of the items
and was taking more time than what was allotted, although I knew exactly
where everything was going and where to find everything in the back and
I didn't have to rely on the computers to find items for customers
because I knew where they were and what was coming and going. The next
position that I had was at a sub factory but that only lasted about two
months because I didn't like talking to the customers and I couldn't get
along with the co-workers so after that I took a position as a security
guard in which that only lasted about a month because all I was doing
was sitting around waiting for something to happen and became extremely
bored. The other security guards were able to talk to each other to
make time go by faster but they usually never talked about what I wanted
to talk about. The next position that I was in was at KraftMaid
Cabinetry from April 2006- January 2007 in which things were going well
until I started taking it upon myself to help out another department to
finish the products on time and a couple of the employees in that
department didn't like that so they told on me because I was only
trained to work on the machines but not certified and that led to my
dismissal, which however I would have probably been laid off the
following week anyway because they laid off 400 people the week after I
was let go. From there it took me until April to find another position
in which I worked overnight freight at a Home Depot. They had me doing
the garden and paint sections because it took me very little time to
find where the products went because I had a map of the store locked in
my head and they loved the way that I was able to turn a normal 14 hour
job into 6 hours because of my quickness and all the time that I saved.
The things that got me in trouble there was because of differences
between me and two other employees that slacked off a lot on the job so I
raised my opinions about them. The first spat we were both written up,
the second time was with the other employee so since I was involved in
both they decided to let me go. After that I was able to find a job at
Therm-O-Link which was a wire producing and extrusion mill. I was able
to double the numbers expected by me by implementing better procedures
and working with the engineers in which I have been told those same
procedures are still in place. They were very impressed with my
knowledge and how I was always able to put in the crazy hours which made
most of the others call off at least once a week to enjoy a little free
time or take care of personal business. I obtained that position in
July of 2007 and was involved in a work related incident in October 2007
which caused my had to get caught up and wrapped in the machine. I
took a lot of time and made weekly appointments for cortisone shots
other treatment in which since I worked day shift caused me a lot of
times to have to leave work to make the appointments while on the clock
so the company was losing a lot of money so it took them a couple months
then they finally got a group of people to testify to an offense that I
didn't commit so they could release me. In April of 2008 I was able to
land a job for Minteq International in which I lines steel bearing
furnaces with refractories to prevent them from burning through. I also
did all the routine maintenance on all the gunning equipment and did
the programming on the laser equipment. I was the only person certified
on all of the equipment and all of the persons in the mill loved the
work that I performed because of time and efficiency whereas the others
weren't as efficient as me. My shop supervisor told me all the time
that I am the best gunner that he had in the shop as far as work ethic,
attendance and punctuality but I need to learn how to think before I
speak. In November of 2010 I decided to seek counseling in which the
counselor thought I had OCD and then he said he couldn't help me if I
didn't answer him. I didn't know how to answer him so my wife decided
to come with me and she decided that she didn't like him and thought I
should find someone else. In April of 2011 I found a counselor that I
have been working with since, at the end of April 2011 was when I was
diagnosed with aspergers. The main reason that I went to counseling was
because I was terminated because of a few confrontations with other
employees (there were only 2 of 9 that I got along with) and when the
union got to me I told them that I was suspected to have aspergers but
not fully diagnosed so in order for them to get me back to work (on a
last chance agreement) was to get a full diagnosis. Once diagnosed I
printed a lot of information about aspergers to hand to my supervisor to
let him know what it was about and asked if he could pass it on to the
other employees and he told me that I need to fix myself before he tells
the other employees. I then got into a few more arguments but they
were unable to release me because of the diagnosis but one of the
factors on the last chance agreement was safety so they started to try
to find safety issues to write me up on because they did not want me in
the shop expressing my thoughts. They wrote me up once for not putting
in my ear protection and another time for taking off my safety glasses
to clean the lenses. The one violation was when I wanted to help out
the mill guys on the floor clearing a clogged tap hole in which while
burning it out the oxygen hit an air pocket and caused the 2500 degree
hot slag to splash back and I got burned on my had and right leg. My
company said that it was a mill job and not mine, they said I was not
trained in it and therefore my accident violated the safety agreement in
the last chance agreement so they had to let me go. My supervisor did
not want to let me go since other than one other employee there I was
the most reliable when it came to problem solving and completing a job
but there was nothing he could do because the company felt that I was
more of a cancer to them trying to implement new safety strategies and
costing them money. After that I took on a position at Johnsonite
(Rubber Flooring) as a temporary associate (temp to hire) in which I was
qualified within one month on all the jobs (helper, splitter, stock
storage, mill operator, mini-mill operator and calender operator) in the
calendering department. Likewise with this position I received a lot
of praise on my efficiency and job knowledge however I got into many
spats with a few of the other co-workers, and even though I knew it was
the wrong thing to do I just couldn't hold back telling these people how
I felt about what they were doing. I got along good with the
supervisors and plant manager but I only worked good with 3 other people
in that department and the plant manager said that I need to be more of
a team player and less of a thinker and due to my lack of social skills
I was unable to make more friends so they decided to end my assignment
rather than keeping me. Since that was a temporary position there was
nothing that I could do to protect myself so that's why I am only
looking for full time employment now so that once hired I can implement
the American's with Disabilities Act. I do have a job interview on
Tuesday and my only hope is that I can be myself and cover up a little
of what I can to get this position. If you have any more questions on
my employment (or school) history please feel free to ask.
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